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Learning to Date in Your Early Thirties

December 29, 2010

deleted per request of said friend 🙂

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  1. nick permalink
    December 30, 2010 1:12 am

    if he’s so great just ask him out and find out all that stuff on your own. thats part of the fun of dating, or so i’ve heard. dating is dumb. anyone know any awesome singles?

  2. December 30, 2010 9:07 am

    hey romeo, so we are interested in knowing if you have any constructive insights or reflections on your friend’s email regarding dating in your 30s, or for that matter, being a woman in academia dating in your 30s. some critical analysis would make for an interesting blog post, no? or u just blasting her on FB? ha ha -claudia & kency

  3. December 30, 2010 9:09 am

    oh, i have a lot to say about being a woman of color in academia and trying to date. We were just wondering if you had something to say about the way your friend went about it, how you reacted to her questions and if there was any male insight to this “women (of color) in academia that are learning to date in their 30′”. It takes two to tango, and women in academia talk about it all the time, so it wouldnt hurt to get a males perspective this time around

    • December 30, 2010 9:11 am

      ah ok. well, I wont comment on the way she went about it (y shes not a women of color, for the record or a women, i changed the gender to be polite) but I would say that based on the wofcolor i know it is pretty hard…being smart, and having a job that doesnt allow for comprises…the man has to make sacrifices, or re-think ideas about how relationships shoudl work…In regards to dating, anything I say will prolly sound silly or naive, but I would suggest being upfront, direct, and keeping the faith. Id like ot think there is a critical man of color for all them awesome mujers out there…..sounds like a dating site no? some latino mba should start one, hahajajaja. just today I meet a single male early 30s, from boyle heights, works for MTA, loves to cook, admires his mom…im just saying they out there…

  4. Aimee permalink
    January 11, 2011 4:36 pm

    Best dating advice I’ve heard.
    Please note this advice comes from Power 106 (Where Hip Hop Lives).

    “if you want to meet interesting people you have to do interesting things”

  5. Nicolas Guzman or Francisca Guzman permalink
    January 21, 2011 2:46 am

    sounds like a good idea.. aimee…

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